Take a look at this photo.
Stare at this photo for a few seconds and upload it into your memory folder titled “never again,” as a reminder of what a healthy relationship really looks like: Two people in their own separate containers (life space). e direction. Looking out at the world and how far they’ve come. Fire in between them.
My old definition of love would be these two people sitting in a bubbling jacuzzi. Jets blasting. Sitting on each other’s laps and facing each other. Drinking champagne and losing track of time. Yes, that sounds amazing. I’ve experienced it. But it’s not sustainable. The water gets hot. You get claustrophobic. You forget who you are. Continue reading “This Is What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like”